I’m a strong believer that happiness comes from inside. When you’re happy with who you are, you don’t need someone else to tell you how wonderful you are.. you just know! Of course, it’s great to hear from other(s), but it still cannot replace what you believe about yourself. Think about it this way: if someone tells you “you’re beautiful”, but you don’t believe it yourself.. will you believe him/her? When you’re happy with who you are and your life, chances are you will attract in your life someone like you.
A relationship between two people, when both of them are happy before meeting each other, has much more chances to be a great relationship – especially if they have something in common, share a special purpose. Something to put their attention on, while enjoying each other. They could do great things separate, but when they join their forces, the synergy of their relationship could give them .. wings! If not, they might not grow in the same rhythm, and the relationship might suffer.
So.. what can you do to be happy with who you are? Recognize your uniqueness! Understand that the way you look and think about yourself is only your own perception.. you can change it anytime! And find references for the new belief! When you are in love, you pay attention only to the positive characteristics of your mate.. and you feel so good being in love!
What do you need to love.. yourself?
Watch this video about the effect of thoughts, words, music, and pictures on water. We are more than 60% water!
Gabriela Casineanu, M.Eng, MBA, ACC, ORSC